The Engbers Family

Happy Thanksgiving

2011-11-23T21:42:00.004-05:00

From our family to yours, Happy Thanksgiving!

Don't worry, we've contacted American Idol regarding the next round of auditions.

To get the full effect make a turkey with your hands...feathers in the back with fingers spread on one hand, fist of the other hand to the open palm for a body, gobbly turkey neck with the thumb. Just in case you couldn't figure out what the world he was doing with his hands. Please make sure your turkey gobbles...a lot.

Sorry about the wobbly camera. Avery was climbing in and out of my lap.

Trick or Treat!

2011-11-01T10:04:00.005-04:00

We had a night filled with many treats and no tricks! A success in my book.

The best part of Halloween...

Jackson: Getting so much candy!
Will: Knocking and getting candy.
Avery: Jury is still out on that one, she was one grouchy kitty and in bed by 6:45. Maybe next year!

Back to school and back to blogging

2011-09-13T10:26:00.006-04:00

After a 4 month break it is time to get back into the swing of things, don't you think? In regards to both blogging and school! :)

Jackson--
Officially a 1st grader. After letting his friends get a 2 day head start (thank you fever), 1st grade finally began. He loves it and is totally exhausted by it all at the same time. His favorite part, recess of course. Doing paperwork comes second place. (Really???) We are not playing soccer this fall (mom missed the sign up) but are staying plenty busy getting into all kinds of bigger kid trouble with a few of the neighbors. Lego creations and making books are favorite pass times. The tooth fairy has visited twice and I'm quite sure he grew at least 3 inches this summer (or at least since the last time he wore pants...)

Will--
When I asked him how his first day of school was I got an enthusiastic "Awesome!" In all honestly I had a hard time dropping him off the first day, I had to keep swallowing the lump in the back of my throat. But he LOVES it and it is so good for him. He makes it his business to keep tabs on everyone in the class, making sure I know who was just a little bit naughty because they didn't sit "criss-cross applesauce" and who got to be the helper with their mom. His favorite part was the bear hunt they took on the first day. We've read "We're Going On A Bear Hunt" so many times since he now can "read" it by himself. This summer he's gotten so brave in the water. He even went down the slide at MVP...over and over and over again! He's still proves to be an animal and bug lover and this summer we rescued monarach butterflies off the beach, a praying mantis out of the parking lot of Walmart and a grasshopper out of the yard. Not to mention the many caterpillars we watched make cocoons and turn into moths.

Avery-- A full time walker! Just in the last couple weeks she's discovered that her feet were made for walking and I'm sure it's just a matter of weeks before she figures out running. Grass, sand, woodchips, nothing deters her from walking and it's funny to watch. This girl is into EVERYTHING!!! She empties the tupperware cupboard daily, can climb on the kitchen and deck chairs (not to mention the table), and thinks she can walk down stairs. She loves the beach and the water! She loves to eat sand and every other snack that might be packed in the bag. Lately she carries a bag over her shoulder wherever she goes (yes, like a purse) and puts stuff in and out. Her favorite purse item is an empty dental floss container. She likes to push her baby doll in a stroller and I've seen her trying to carry her baby up by her shoulder. I'd like to know who taught her this?

Dave and I continue to keep busy too. HC fall sports are in full operation which makes for busy times for Dave. He still continues to "need" a boat in a bad way and we now own most of the equipment necessary for the boat, but no boat to put it in. I'm babysitting 2 days a week, enjoying the afternoons when I am not outnumbered, and training for a half marathon in a couple weeks.

Phew...there's life in a nutshell. Hopefully the next update will be sooner than 4 months from now.

A tisket, a tasket

2011-05-03T17:00:00.009-04:00

We had a wonderful Easter. My "basket" is full and I feel blessed. Here are some pictures of my favorite memories of the day.

Some bunny loved their first Easter Basket filled with a pair of shoes and a paci. What's not to love about that? However the jelly beans in her basket from Papa and Mema were the real winners!

Some bunny else drew this picture during church.

And some bunny else helped his birthday buddy, Grandpa, celebrate his day.

And somehow I think it might be easier to get 3 real bunnies to sit and cooperate for a picture.

In taking some time to prepare for the real celebration of Easter the boys and I made Ressurection Rolls. These were a huge hit and provided a great teaching moment. We also spent some time reading The Jesus Storybook Bible. I love, love, love this Bible! Sometimes when I read it I think it is as much for me as it is for the kids. You know when you hear or read something that you've heard a million times before but one day you hear it with new ears? This book is like that. Every time I ready it.

A wonderful day with a wonderful family celebrating a wonderful and very much risen Lord!

Birthday Boy

2011-04-19T21:26:00.001-04:00

I told Will for at least a week that he could have a birthday but he wasn't allowed to turn 4, he just had to stay 3. Finally he started crying and told me that I "just have to tell the truth!" Ok, ok. But how can he be 4? Wasn't he just born? Apparently not, but he is still cute as the dickens and maybe I'll pretend for just a bit that he is still a baby.

William, William,
Even though you are 4, you still do "little" things that make you little. You like to climb in our bed to snuggle and you still play with your hair. You ask for "break-frist" every morning and would rather drink out of a sippy-cup than one without a top. You still love your blanket and your lovey but have ditched the paci. (Nice work buddy!)
On a more grown up note, you love to play with others and you are a good friend. When in the care of others I often hear how sweet you are and that you are careful for the feelings of others. You are quite observant, you don't miss much, even though you seem to be not paying attention much of the time. You have an unbelievable ability to quote lines from TV shows and movies, a trait you did not get from your mother. You are still a bit of a goof at heart and sometimes I just look at you and laugh. You love wearing your goggles, but ironically enough you are scared to death to put your head underwater. You also like to pick out your own clothes but fashion is not your strong suit.

For your birthday all you wanted was "jeans that come with a belt". Seriously? But we were happy to oblige. Maybe someday we will tell you that we didn't actually buy you new jeans we just put the belt on the ones that were already in your drawer. You love your "new jeans" and have worn them more times in the last week than you wore your "old jeans" in the last 5 months. You also wanted a pink birthday cake. We were looking out for your future self when we settled on something a little more your favorite color with pink sprinkled in for good measure.
Will, we love that you love Jesus and that you love to pray. You pray for each person in the room (sometimes excluding your brother, just to get under his skin) and have insightful things to say. You love Bible stories and ask many questions so that you understand all angles of each story. God is growing you up to be a special little man and we couldn't be more proud. We love you so much and are looking forward to all that this year has to hold.

Love, Daddy and Mommy

A picture is worth 1,000 words...

2011-04-04T21:45:00.003-04:00

...so I'll let the picture do the talking.

The story of my life

2011-01-13T14:23:00.005-05:00

This is so true and so funny. Like make you cry you're laughing so hard and try not to wet your pants laughing. Because let's be real, this sounds like my life. Some good old fashioned parenting lessons (or reminders) for those in all seasons of life.

Lesson 1
1. Go to the grocery store.

2. Arrange to have your salary paid directly to their head office.

3. Go home.

4. Pick up the paper.

5. Read it for the last time.

Lesson 2
Before you finally go ahead and have children, find a couple who already are parents and berate them about their…

1. Methods of discipline.

2. Lack of patience.

3. Appallingly low tolerance levels.

4. Allowing their children to run wild.

5. Suggest ways in which they might improve their child’s breastfeeding, sleep habits, toilet training, table manners, and overall behavior.

Enjoy it because it will be the last time in your life you will have all the answers.

Lesson 3
A really good way to discover how the nights with a baby might feel…

1. Get home from work and immediately begin walking around the living room from 5PM to 10PM carrying a wet bag weighing approximately 8-12 pounds, with a radio turned to static (or some other obnoxious sound) playing loudly. (Eat cold food with one hand for dinner)

2. At 10PM, put the bag gently down, set the alarm for midnight, and go to sleep.

3. Get up at 12 and walk around the living room again, with the bag, until 1AM.

4. Set the alarm for 3AM.

5. As you can’t get back to sleep, get up at 2AM and make a drink and watch an infomercial.

6. Go to bed at 2:45AM.

7. Get up at 3AM when the alarm goes off.

8. Sing songs quietly in the dark until 4AM.

9. Get up. Make breakfast. Get ready for work and go to work (work hard and be productive)

Repeat steps 1-9 each night. Keep this up for 3-5 years. Look cheerful and together.

Lesson 4
Can you stand the mess children make? To find out…

1. Smear peanut butter onto the sofa and jam onto the curtains.

2. Hide a piece of raw chicken behind the stereo and leave it there all summer.

3. Stick your fingers in the flower bed.

4. Then rub them on the clean walls.

5. Take your favorite book, photo album, etc. Wreck it.

6. Spill milk on your new pillows. Cover the stains with crayons. How does that look?

Lesson 5
Dressing small children is not as easy as it seems.

1. Buy an octopus and a small bag made out of loose mesh.

2. Attempt to put the octopus into the bag so that none of the arms hang out.

Time allowed for this – all morning.

Lesson 6
Forget the BMW and buy a mini-van. And don’t think that you can leave it out in the driveway spotless and shining. Family cars don’t look like that.

1. Buy a chocolate ice cream cone and put it in the glove compartment.

Leave it there.

2. Get a dime. Stick it in the CD player.

3. Take a family size package of chocolate cookies. Mash them into the back seat. Sprinkle cheerios all over the floor, then smash them with your foot.

4. Run a metal garden rake along both sides of the car.

Lesson 7
Go to the local grocery store. Take with you the closest thing you can find to a pre-school child. (A full-grown goat is an excellent choice). If you intend to have more than one child, then definitely take more than one goat. Buy your week’s groceries without letting the goats out of your sight. Pay for everything the goat eats or destroys. Until you can easily accomplish this, do not even contemplate having children.

Lesson 8
1. Hollow out a melon.

2. Make a small hole in the side.

3. Suspend it from the ceiling and swing it from side to side.

4. Now get a bowl of soggy Cheerios and attempt to spoon them into the swaying melon by pretending to be an airplane.

5. Continue until half the Cheerios are gone.

6. Tip half into your lap. The other half, just throw up in the air.

You are now ready to feed a nine- month-old baby.

Lesson 9
Learn the names of every character from Sesame Street , Barney, Disney, the Teletubbies, and Pokemon. Watch nothing else on TV but PBS, the Disney channel or Noggin for at least five years. (I know, you’re thinking What’s ‘Noggin’?) Exactly the point.

Lesson 10
Make a recording of Fran Drescher saying ‘mommy’ repeatedly. (Important: no more than a four second delay between each ‘mommy’; occasional crescendo to the level of a supersonic jet is required). Play this tape in your car everywhere you go for the next four years. You are now ready to take a long trip with a toddler.

Lesson 11
Start talking to an adult of your choice. Have someone else continually tug on your skirt hem, shirt- sleeve, or elbow while playing the ‘mommy’ tape made from Lesson 10 above. You are now ready to have a conversation with an adult while there is a child in the room.

Now excuse me. My "goats" are running wild and the "octopus" needs changing.

A new year of many first

2011-01-10T22:06:00.002-05:00

Look really close.

Can you see them? All pearly and white and pointy and making me forget how to sleep through the night. I got these just in time to turn 7 months old. (Let's not even get started on the fact that she's 7 months old).

I also learned another new trick. I'm pretty steady and hardly ever tip. I perfected this skill over break, while wearing Christmas leg warmers.

From the mama...
I'm not one to make New Year's Resolutions. So let's call this a goal and not a resolution shall we? It is my goal to post at least once a week. Also, to cut out all bias and equally represent all of my children. Ahem. You almost forgot I had 3 kiddos didn't you? We wouldn't want anyone to get oldest or middle child syndrome. There we go, all fair and square.

This year is sure to be filled with firsts for everyone in our family. Looking forward to living and growing and learning as a family!

Mmm, Mmm good!

2010-12-03T20:30:00.003-05:00

Need I say more?

42 days

2010-11-12T14:21:00.003-05:00

Someone around here has been making a list. And no doubt, he's been checking it twice. He's also been making a list for his brother and his sister. Isn't that nice of him? Here is Will's list until I suggested that we should maybe ask Will what he wants for Christmas instead of just making a list for him. The solution? It is now a list for both of them.
And for those of you who might have trouble reading a copied Toys-R-Us or Target or Walmart catalog, here you go.
New! Tomica Hypercity
New! Imagniext
New! GeoTrax Imagniext
New! Thomas Wooden Railway
New! Tomica Hypercity (in case you missed that one the first time...)

And Avery's list
It seems that she's asking Santa for a Baby Alive and a Baby All-Gone. How about you? Have your toy catalogs come in the mail yet? Have you spent hours looking through them? What is on your Christmas list this year? If you're not sure, just ask Jackson. I'm sure he'd be happy to make a list for you too.

p.s. A note to grandparents...we'll soon be coming up with a more realistic, mama approved Christmas list. No doubt each of these toys would also require a small addition to the house.

p.p.s. 42 days until Christmas!

Bath-tized

2010-11-04T15:03:00.010-04:00

According to Will we had a "bath-tism" on Sunday. (I think Jackson said that once up a time too.) Avery was her usual smiley self and looked beautiful in RoseAnn's baptism dress. It was a great service and wonderful to be surrounded by so many family members and friends. Our minister encouraged us to celebrate each of the kids baptisms to remind them that they belong to Jesus. I love the idea of this tradition and we look forward to celebrating each of the kids baptism birthdays through out the years. Happy Baptism Birthday, Avery Anne!

A boy

2010-10-08T13:45:00.002-04:00

Boy (n.): a noise with dirt on his face.

3 months

2010-09-16T15:18:00.004-04:00

I'm not quite sure how Avery is already 3 months old. Somehow we missed a 2 month post and we are already 3+ months.
Call me biased but I think she's pretty cute!

Avery,
You are still the most fantastic baby a mama could ever ask for. You are so happy all the time, you smile like crazy and on your 3 month "birthday" you giggled for the first time. You still love to tell stories however the little baby coos are starting to sound a bit more like screeching. You are grabbing the toys on your bouncy seat and can lift your head and tummy off the floor during tummy time. I think you are addicted to you swaddle blanket, I'm not sure what we are going to do when you are too big for it. But you've been sleeping 11 hours at night and taking 3-4 naps during the day, so bless the swaddle blanket. We had you at the doctor a week before your "birthday" and you weighed 13 pounds. Too bad we can't all double our weight in 3 months and be so cute! You still can wear your 0-3 month clothes but most of your fall wardrobe is 3-6 months. We are still working through the size 1 diapers but are ready to graduate to size 2. Fewer blowouts=less laundry for me. You are eating every 3-4 hours, usually closer to 4. My only small complaint is that you r.e.f.u.s.e to take a bottle. Choke. Spit. Gag. Wont even close your mouth. Naughty. But since that is my one and only complaint I'll keep my mouth shut. We love you so much and love to see the way that you are changing each and every day. We thank God for you and our hearts are full.
Love, Daddy and Mommy

The Big 1st day

2010-09-10T09:55:00.007-04:00

We've had quite a few milestones around here in the last couple weeks, but this one deserves a post all of its own. Jackson has now graduated from being a preschooler to being a big time, hot stuff kindergartner! He LOVES it. Here are a few pictures that highlight his first day.

Some reflections on Kindergarten so far...
- We got to go out to the playground 3 times today!!!
-Chapel was my favorite part of today.
-I get to sit next to my new friend Harris. (I don't think he sits next to his friend Harris anymore...)
-But how come all the other kids get to wear junky clothes to school!!!!

His teacher Mrs. Johnson said he is doing very well. He is social and smiling. And therefore not sitting next to Harris anymore! :) He is also a very engaged learner which is music to his teacher mama's ears.

Apparently

2010-08-07T14:49:00.008-04:00

Apparently the end of your nose is a great place to wear dirt.

Apparently you shouldn't ask kids to say cheese when taking their picture. You might just get what you ask for.

Apparently Silly Bands are so cool even babies need to wear them

Look-a-like contest

2010-07-21T22:15:00.008-04:00

What is your vote?

Does she look like brother number one...

Or brother number two...

1 month

2010-07-12T15:08:00.006-04:00

Avery Anne,
You've had a busy first month of life. You've had lots of people come to love on you, had your belly button cauterized twice, you sported your first bathing suit (see picture #2 above), I'm quite sure you've gained almost 4 pounds (mostly cheeks and chins), been to the beach (at less than 2 weeks old), been on vacation to Duck Lake (at 3 weeks old), and gone to Arcadia for the 4th of July (at almost 4 weeks old), and just last night you slept for 7 hours in a row! What a lovely surprise for me. :)

I'm guessing that you weigh close to 10 pounds, you can still wear newborn clothes but now fit in the 0-3 month outfits too. You wear a size 1 diaper, and still sleep for much of the day. You are often awake in the morning and again in the evening, but the afternoon you reserve for snoozing. You go to bed around 10pm and I usually feed you between 2 and 3am and then again between 5 and 6am. You've started giving us your first smiles which we LOVE. You have beautiful blue eyes and haven't really lost much of your hair. We are working on developing a love (tolerance is maybe a better word) for the car seat but are glad that you take a paci. Your brothers love to hold you and they often laugh at the silly faces you make. Jackson likes to help you out by covering you up and giving you your paci when you spit it out. Will has been renamed "Captain Obvious"..."Mom, she's crying", "Mom, she spit her paci out", "Mom, she just pooped".

We are more in love with you every day little girl and we are so glad you are part of our family!

p.s You might not know it yet, but you have the best big brothers in the world.

The proofs are in!

2010-07-12T14:19:00.005-04:00

Oh how I wouldn't love to stop the hands of time. It is hard to believe that it is the middle of July already. I'm not sure where the days go, but somehow summer is half over and my baby is already 5 weeks old. I'm quite sure we were just in the hospital!

We had a newborn picture session done with Avery when she was 2 weeks old. The proofs are hot of the press so head to Photos by Kaity and check them out. (Go to Client Proofs, our password is avery). I especially love the pictures of all three kids together. These make my heart swell just a little. And my word has the girl gotten bigger since these were taken. Like I said, I'd love to stop the hands of time.

Soon to come, some pictures of the big brothers (no, I haven't forgotten about them) and pictures of the the chunky cheeks we have acquired in the last couple weeks.

A day in the life of a two week old

2010-06-22T18:04:00.007-04:00

Our sweet princess has had a busy two weeks. She spends most of her day sleeping. I think the record for being awake (in one stretch) is about an hour. She is also growing like a weed. She is now weighing in a whopping 7 pounds, 4 ounces! This is the girl everyone was so worried about because she was busy loosing weight when she should have been gaining. She is up a full pound in one week. Good work, girl! We are loving on her every minute we get and feel so blessed.

A big brother update. Jackson is totally smitten with her. He loves to hold her and to give her kisses. He has transitioned into the role of big brother times two quite easily.

Then there is William. While he loves "sissy", he's a bit put out at the same time. He too loves to hold her but he's had his fair share of tears as well. He likes to play house and wants Avery to be the big brother and he wants to be the baby. He still calls her Sissy because most of the time he can't remember her name. I even heard in the middle of prayer, "Thank you God for Mommy, Daddy, Jackson, Me, Fudger and...Mama, what do we call her again?...oh yeah, thank you for Avery Anne Engbers. Amen."

Avery Anne

2010-06-16T10:39:00.007-04:00

Introducing...(a tad on the late side, but so it goes with a newborn...)

Avery Anne Engbers
June 7, 2010
6 pounds, 12 ounces
20 inches

God has truly blessed us and we are filled with joy!

Fearfully and wonderfully made

2010-06-04T21:14:00.003-04:00

While I am more than excited to meet our littlest one, my heart is heavy for my friend Katie and her family. They received news at their 20 week ultrasound that their baby Gabe is very sick. You can visit Katie's Blog to read more about their story here. I know they covet our prayers. I believe in the God of miracles and want to ask you to please join me in lifting their family up in prayer.

Katie, Kevin, Gavin, Anne Hope and Gibson, you have our prayers and our love. May you feel yourselves in the grip of God's mighty hands.

"For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be."

Psalm 139:13-16

Family picture

2010-05-16T17:23:00.003-04:00

This is quite possibly my favorite family picture ever! Thank you Jackson.

Taking time to smell the tulips

2010-05-11T09:21:00.007-04:00

Late last week, all three boys dressed in their finest dutch apparel and we headed downtown Holland to Tulip Time. They all looked stunning! (Me and my big belly were glad to not have to try and fit into anything but a stretchy pannel.) RoseAnn made each of the boys' costumes and the town of Holland was definitely impressed with her handiwork. My handsome boys (all three of them) made the tulips look all the better!

A free picture collage by Smilebox

Five and Fabulous!

2010-05-10T20:17:00.003-04:00

I have been telling Jackson for weeks that he's not allowed to have a birthday because there is NO WAY we can have a 5 year old at our house. Really, where does the time go? I can hardly believe the boy is five.

Dear Jackson,

What a spirited child you are. You are full of energy, always full of ideas, creative, and playful. You have a vivid imagination and you have an energy that is contagious. You are a determined fella. You are often frustrated to be only 5 and not a bit older so that you can make more of the family decisions! :) You can also be so incredibly sweet. You like to tell me I'm beautiful (which I obviously love), you have a tender heart for young children, and you love our time to snuggle at the end of the day.

Your current favorites are riding bikes (and you LOVE your new big bike) and playing GeoTrax. You also like to color and love to read books. We are reading Charlotte's Web, your first chapter book and you have really gotten into it. You are starting to read some words on your own and I don't think it will be long before you start reading all on your own. Your teachers say you are doing so well in Spanish Emergency and you are more than ready for kindergarten.

Jackson, Daddy and I love you so much. We are proud of you and know that God has great plans for your life. We are excited to help you grow into the plans He has in store for you. We pray for you each day and we are so glad you are part of our family. Happy 5th Birthday!

Hugs and kisses,
Mom and Dad

Fresh Flowers...

2010-04-24T21:09:00.003-04:00

...hand picked with love!

(p.s. These are tulips according to a certain 3 year old.)

Sweet William

2010-04-19T21:22:00.010-04:00

It is hard to believe that it was 3 years ago that we welcomed this sweet babe into the world.

Will,

Three years later you are still our sweet William. Always good for a hug or snuggle, a bit of a mama's boy, and full of kind words. You get along easily with others, are a bit timid in new situations, and you like your routines. You still love your paci, you drag your blanket around the house like it is attached to your hand, and you play with your hair when you are tired.

You love to play outside and to wear shorts and short sleeves. You ask daily about when we can go to the beach. You are a boy after my own heart! Your newest favorite is lacrosse which makes your daddy proud. You are also a bit of a goof. It isn't unusual to find you wearing or doing something goofy. You dress for summer yet wear big fuzzy bear slippers. You wear my sunglasses around the house like they were made for your face. For your third birthday you requested a Christmas dinner and a Santa cake. You are your own little man!

Will, we are so proud of you! We thank God for the little boy he has created you to be. We pray for you every day and can't wait to see how you continue to grow in the coming year. We love you buddy! Happy Birthday.

XOXO, Mommy and Daddy

(Just in case you don't believe me that he's walks to the beat of his own drum...)

Because money doesn't grow on trees

2010-04-17T15:37:00.003-04:00

The following conversation took place in the car yesterday afternoon.

J: Mommy, can I get a Gator for my birthday?
(We were recently at a friend's house and this friend has a Power Wheels Gator. This apparently is the most coveted toy an almost 5 and almost 3 year old can think of.)

Me: Sorry honey, Power Wheels cost too much money.

J: No, no, mom you don't have to buy it. Someone else will just get it for me.

Me: Oh really. Who do you think might get it for you?

J: Probably Me-ma and Papa.

Me: Do Me-ma and Papa have a lot of money?

J: Yeah, I think so. Um, maybe I better call and ask them.

Me: Sounds like a good idea.

J (Leaving a message for my mom): Hi Mima, this is Jackson. Do you have like $100 or like $1,000,000? Bye!

I'm still laughing just thinking about all of this. It's not surprising that he seems to have it all figured out! Right down to the number of dollars one might need to buy the coveted gator!

Happy Easter

2010-04-16T10:45:00.008-04:00

Just a few of my favorites from Easter morning. Enjoy!

And just because we can't go more than 2 minutes without being silly...! :)

This one is for you Dad

2010-04-10T16:53:00.017-04:00

WARNING: Picture heavy post. Unless you are a grandparent or are as much in love with my children as I am, you may want to scroll quickly.

After some gentle prodding from a certain someone I figured it was time for another post. We've traveled some, the weather has been lovely, and we've been doing a lot of hanging out at home during Spring Vacation. Dave has been home a lot and the boys have loved every minute of it (me too!).

Our travels took us to the Fredrick Meijer Gardens for a day filled with beautiful sunshine and butterflies.

We also traveled to Chicago for a mini vacation. We ate Giordano's Pizza until we were as stuffed as the pizza, walked down Michigan Avenue and visited Nike Town and the Lego store. Much to my disappointment not one foot was set in Crate and Barrel. On our second day we went to the Shedd Aquarium. The boys loved it, however, when I asked Will what his favorite part of the trip was he was quite positive the best part was jumping on the bed at the hotel room.

Clearly all the jumping on the beds wore them out!

And a few from the Aquarium. Most of the pictures didn't turn out so well because of the lighting inside. Sorry.

And this is why children under 3 are free. Because they fall asleep approximately 3 minutes before the dolphin show even starts.

We took some c-u-t-e pictures on Easter (not to toot my own horn or anything) and had a little pajama party with cousin Bradley yesterday, but I'll share those pictures another day. I wouldn't want to cause permanent damage to anyone's retinas.

It's official!

2010-03-03T14:25:00.002-05:00

Dave had his final interview with Holland Christian today and he is now officially the Athletic Director! This is an answer to prayer and we feel blessed. For a full story from the HC website, click here.

Congrats honey! Holland Christian is a better place with you in it!

Just a side note, this is my 100th post. I think that is a big deal in blog world or something. So I'll pat myself on the back for that accomplishment. That and the fact that the kitchen floor got washed today! Enough being productive, I'm off to take a nap.

Happy Wednesday!

What a Day!

2010-02-24T14:40:00.006-05:00

Maybe it's better said, "what a week...or even better, what a two weeks...!" Let's see if I can get it all:

-1 case of the stomach flu
-3 colds
-3 visits to the pediatrician
-562 calls to the nurses at the pediatrician's office
-1 trip to the hospital for a blood culture and back x-rays
-14 nights of interrupted sleep
-2 infected ears
-7,345 toddler meltdowns
-1 smashed up bumper
-a $500 deductible
-and a partridge in a pear tree.

But, as they say, every cloud has a silver lining. In this case, no one was hurt in the minor accident (except the front of the car, the pole, and my pride) and our coverage covers a rental car.

Does this look like the face of a happy camper?

Not convinced? Try this.

And if you ever try to copy this hairstlye, please give Will the credit that is due.

For the record, this is not a pitty party. Just in case you were wondering. I've just been feeling at the end of my rope. Sick of wondering what the heck is wrong with my kid. Exhausted. And, pregnant with all emotions in full swing. Obviously.

Then, I read this verse today. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition present your requests to God. And the peace of God which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus!" Phillipians 4:6-7. Thank you Jesus for this whisper to my soul. You knew exactly what I needed to hear.

No more worrying about what sort of nasty disease might be making Will's back hurt. No more loosing sleep about the "what if's". Instead, more prayers to the One who already knows all the answers. Resting in the knowledge that my requests have been brought to God and that He has promised His peace. And here's to hoping for antibiotics that knock the ear infections silly, a back that quits hurting, and a little more sleep at night. I'm quite sure He wants that for all of us!

Now I lay me down to sleep

2010-02-22T09:37:00.004-05:00

I pray the Lord my soul to keep.

Fever cheeks and all.

Introducing...

2010-02-19T10:50:00.001-05:00

Our very healthy, ultrasound compliant, little girl!

I still cannot believe that we have been blessed with a daughter. And although I would have been very happy with another baby boy, way, way, way in the deep down place of my heart I loved the idea of having a little girl. A daughter. I think it has something to do with being one...a girl, and a daughter that is. You know, knowing what girls are like, how they think. Something I'm still trying to figure out when it comes to the "Y" chromosomes in our house. All three of them. That being said, I feel so honored to be the mother or two sons. To experience the unique relationship that mamas have with their boys has been awesome, eye opening, hilarious, even when at times I just don't get them. I wouldn't trade it for anything.

I am so looking forward to meeting our baby girl and developing a totally new kind of relationship; the mother-daughter kind. I'm pleased as punch that she has two older brothers to protect her (when they aren't beating up on her of course). I'm excited for the pink that has already invaded the house, and the thought of all the girly things that are yet to come. I love you sweet one; your daddy and brothers do too. We pray for you each day and we are so glad you are part of our family!

A sweet surprise

2010-02-17T11:07:00.008-05:00

How is it that the shortest month of the year is quite possibly the longest month? There is no hope for Spring quite yet and we are really all quite sick of Winter at this point.

Currently, this is our reality.

(Ok, so the picture of the dog is from last year or maybe two years ago. If I weren't so lazy I might go outside and take a different picture, but it would look just the same. I decided not to risk falling on my rear trying to get the backyard to get another picture.)

12 inches of snow, lots of gray sky, and some stir crazy kids. Did I mention that this makes for a cranky mama?

A special package arrived the mail last Friday. Since then it has felt a lot more like Spring around here. Thank you Dave; I love you too!

Just hanging out

2010-02-04T10:14:00.002-05:00

A little father-son bonding at the Holland Christian basketball game. I love these boys!

Deal of the Week

2010-01-27T13:43:00.002-05:00

Since I'm a recent Savings Angel drop out, I'm constantly on the hunt for good deals when it comes to groceries. (And just for the record, I think Savings Angel is great, as long as you use it...) My best deal of the week was Coffee-Mate creamer. You know how much I love my French Vanilla cream (especially the Coffee-Mate variety).

So here's the deal for you West Michiganders (I'm not sure if Walgreen's sales are the same across the country, sorry.) Walgreen's Coffee-Mate cream is on sale, buy one, get one free (regularly $2.49 each for the small size). Just wait, it gets better with coupons. Go here to print a $1 off 1 coupon, but please print two. You'll have to register, but it just takes a second. If that doesn't work because you've already printed coupons from that site before, go here. Click on "Send a Cup of Confidence", fill out a nice little note, and print yourself two, one dollar off coupons. If you use both coupons you can get 2 creams for $0.49. That's a good deal! If you are a first time printer, you could go to both links and get yourself 4 creamers for less than a dollar. I'm pretty sure cream stays good for months in the fridge so no need to worry about them expiring.

Sorry, the cutie in the background is not part of the deal.

Many thanks to Sarah's Deals for the help in finding this deal. You can follow her blog or follow her on Facebook. She has lots of tips for big savings.

Hope you have a great day and happy coffee drinking!

Fashion Trends- 2010

2010-01-22T16:28:00.004-05:00

You heard it here first. We've voted and found the hottest fashion trend for 2010.

Now, you better run out and get yourself some 'shundies' and tube socks before they're all sold out.

Happy (Belated) New Year!

2010-01-15T19:09:00.002-05:00

Yes, we are still here. Yes, it's the middle of January and I haven't posted for a month (gasp). Yes, we've been busy.

We ended 2009 by spending some wonderful time with Dave's parents, his sister Lori and her husband Andy, and grandma Niecia. We even had a short visit with brother Jeff and his wife Noell. We celebrated Christmas together, ate cinnamon rolls, played boat (thank you Andy...no one plays boat quite like you), grandma ironed almost every piece of clothing we own that might possibly ever need ironing (thank you Grandma...you know how much I despise ironing), Dave and his dad did a knock out job fixing the door handle of the van (it is still in tact, by the way), tried on the Dutch costumes carefully made by Dave's mom (so, so cute), built snowmen, drank hot chocolate, and just hung out. It was wonderful.

Dave and I rang in 2010 with my mom's side of the family in Florida. On New Year's Eve we ate pizza, watched old family videos, and eagerly anticipated our upcoming cruise on the Carnival Dream. (Did I mention this was a kid-less cruise for the Engbers? I love you boys, but Yipeeeee!) Dave's mom stayed with the boys the whole 10 days we were gone. She is a saint, honestly. Thank you, thank you, thank you, mom! Despite our chilly time in Florida we had an AWESOME time cruising the Caribbean with 29 relatives. We made stops in The Bahamas, St. Thomas, and St. Martin. Beautiful blue green water, hot sun, snorkeling, kayaks, sitting in the sun (even if we were wearing sweaters and/or covered by a towel), making pirate jokes (What's a pirates favorite kind of socks? Arrrrrgyle!), rum punch (none for me of course), catamarans, and warm chocolate melting cake, all made for some great family memories. We had a wonderful time and if we didn't miss the boys so much I think we might have stayed forever. My mom is already trying to think of a way to get us all to work on the same boat. Just think, free living, free travel, free food (and lots of it). I'm sure we would never get sick of being on a boat all the time! I will make a slide show of pictures and post them soon, after we do the virtual picture swap.

We are now home and settling back into reality. We are anticipating a job interview for Dave, to see if his role as Interim Athletic Director will be a permanent position, and also looking forward to our 20 week ultrasound on January 26. The boys play with GeoTrax every spare second of the day and it has been a great winter distraction.

Pictures will be coming soon and more frequent posting from this mama. Time to get the kiddos to bed and enjoy a quite night while Dave is away. Happy weekend everyone!

Christmas Crazy

2009-12-15T12:07:00.007-05:00

We've been a little busy and feeling a little under the weather. Not the best combo. I'm feeling a little caught up in the Christmas crazyness that I so despise, even though I LOVE Christmas. My shopping is maybe half done and I'm all out of ideas...don't you hate that? But, the Christmas cards are sent (as of today), I made my dreaded trip to the post office, the tree is decorated, the basement is clean (for the moment), and the kids are happy. I'm choosing to be happy about what is complete, rather than fret about what isn't. I'll save the fretting for 3am when I can't fall back to sleep.

And here are some pictures to pacify those both near and far away.

And just in case you were wondering...you're never too young to be "a really useful engine!" We love you Bradley!

Oh Baby!

2009-12-02T20:15:00.007-05:00

I'm having some technical difficulties loading my video. I really wanted the cute little box with the play button instead of a link, but I can't figure it out. So a link it is. If you have a spare 4 minutes, watch the following video before you continue reading.

Engbers Family Video

We cut tape right before the tears started. Big sad eyes and a trembling chin were not what I expected to see from Jackson. He just kept saying, "But I don't want to have a baby." WHAT??? He's only been asking "when do we get to have 3 children in our family?" for about 6 months. He even asked a few weeks ago if we could maybe have a baby next summer. Too funny. He seems to have rallied from the initial blow and even called Nanny and Mema and the Papa's to share the good news...in case they had forgotten! Will just wanted to keep the baby's paci. He has no idea what's coming and that's probably best.

So, the word is out. I'm just over 12 weeks, and quite glad to have turned the corner as far as nausea and tiredness go. Even though we have had two ultrasounds, it was great to be able to hear the heartbeat from the outside at my appointment yesterday. My official due date is June 14 but we'll keep you posted as we move along.

Holiday Freebie

2009-11-20T14:18:00.003-05:00

I heard about this great freebie that I just had to share. To be honest, I haven't actually tried it myself, but two close friends have and said it works. No strings attached. So, if you are looking to save a few pennies this Christmas but would still like to send out Christmas Cards check out Money Saving Mom to order 100 free Christmas photo cards. Now I just have to get a good picture of the boys! Hurry over, the offer expires on November 30.

Sneak Peek

2009-11-12T17:25:00.005-05:00

I did some creating today, but I'm only going to give a sneak peek. You know, with Christmas around the corner and everything. Happy peeking!

A special sweet treat

2009-11-04T14:23:00.003-05:00

Halloween was especially sweet this year because we welcomed Bradley Bennett to our family. Our first nephew and cousin. Jackson and Will talk about him all the time and parade his picture around wherever we go. We love you little one, and what a treat you are!

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

2009-11-04T14:17:00.002-05:00

Ok, so no bears, but we had a pretty cute lion and a tiger!

Blessings

2009-10-19T13:18:00.003-04:00

"Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night." Psalm 1:1-2.

These are the verses that Pastor Jim has been using in his childrens messages at Church. Each Sunday morning (for the month of October) he reads this verse, chooses a small part to further explain in "kid language", and then asks the kids to help him recite the verse (with motions!). This past Sunday morning Pastor Jim talked about blessings and what it means to be blessed. He explained that sometimes we know about blessings but sometimes there are surprise blessings in our lives. He gave the example of coming home from school to find grandma and grandpa at your house when you didn't know they were coming. It was at this point in the message that Jackson piped up and said, "Yeah, that's like when you are sleeping and Santa just sneaks in your door and leaves you some presents!" To which another boy chimed in saying, "Yeah well, my mom is just Santa." Nothing like keeping the pastor on his toes on Sunday morning! :)

Dave was mortified, wanting to crawl under the pew and disappear. The rest of the congregation thought it was hilarious. At least Jackson didn't ask if Jesus lived with Santa at the North Pole or if Santa was in heaven with Jesus. I'm quite certain that he was wondering about this last year at Christmas time.

We have so many blessings in life, not the least of which is a 4 year old with a curious mind and and uninhibited spirit!

Soup-er Saturday

2009-10-17T12:25:00.005-04:00

I recently made this soup for a meal exchange. Our family loves it...even the boys. You can either dunk grilled cheese or garnish with shredded cheese and croutons. Or you can eat it plain, but what's the fun in that? Hope you enjoy!

Tomato-Basil Soup

2 (28 oz.) cans of crushed tomatoes
1 (14.5 ounce) can chicken broth
Fresh, minced garlic (I used my garlic press)
18ish fresh basil leaves, minced
2 T. sugar
1 cup whipping cream
4 T. butter

In a large saucepan, bring the tomatoes, broth, and garlic to a boil. Reduce heat; cover and simmer for 10 minutes. Add basil and sugar. Reduce heat to low; stir in cream and butter. Cook until butter is melted.

A side note: I did try this with half and half (some even use milk) to reduce the caloric value a tad, but shockingly enough, it was much better with the cream.

Hop on over to Katie's blog to find some other fantastic soup recipes. Happy Eating!

A L-A-Z-Y Day

2009-10-17T08:19:00.004-04:00

So, we're feeling a little lazy this morning. Both the boys have colds and Jackson has a "leaking eye", as he calls it. Not sure if it's pink eye or not. So cartoons on PBS are just what the doctor ordered for the morning. A little oatmeal for breakfast and maybe we'll head back to Crane's for some more apples. Depends on the eye. Maybe we'll just stay in our jammies all day and snuggle.And we'll give you a little smile, but don't think for one minute we'll peel our eyes off the TV.

One of those weeks

2009-10-15T20:17:00.001-04:00

It seems like this week has been "one of those weeks" with the kids. Constant bickering, whining, pressing their mother's every button. You know, one of those kinds of weeks. Our trip to the grocery store this week was especially frightful and I'm sure if you live in a 30 mile radius of the 16th street Meijer, you could hear the massive meltdown as it was in progress. For those of you who are farther away, consider yourselves lucky. I was thinking of busting out this move like the Mother of the Year. (I wish I was really techy and knew how to post this video directly instead of just the link...sorry.) But please watch it...I did...at least 10 times.

I've recently started reading a blog called (in)courage. These daily postings have been refreshing and encouraging for me to read. Women from all walks of life post about their lives and their faith. A post worth reading from a few weeks back can be found here. Just a small reminder that I am not defined by my children (or their actions) but am to be defined by Christ alone.

Backseat Ramblings

2009-09-29T16:53:00.001-04:00

J: Mommy, when will I be as old as daddy?

W: Just when you get no hair, Jackson.

Me: Side splitting laughter!

Giveaway Day

2009-09-29T07:54:00.002-04:00

The Nester is hosting a fabulous Giveaway Day. Yesterday there were 24 giveaways in 24 hours. So, check it out and post a comment to enter yourself for some great winnings! I think all the comments close at midnight tonight. You're welcome!

Saturday Fun

2009-09-28T20:23:00.016-04:00

Due to a last minute change in plans, we had almost an entire Saturday together as a family. This may not sound like much, but this is a rarity around our house. We started our morning eating baked oatmeal, oh so good.
We then went to Crane's Orchard in Fenville and picked apples. The boys LOVED it and really they did most of the work. The trees were small enough that the apples were right at their height. We picked lots and lots of apples, most of which have been made into applesauce. Except for the Honeycrisps. We've been eating those like they might rot before the week is out.

Another rare moment was had on this wonderful day. I went to the grocery store...ALL BY MYSELF!!! And you better believe that I walked around, looking at everything under the sun, nursing my Pumpkin Spice Latte, savoring every sweet moment that no one was asking for pop-tarts and chocolate cereal, whining to say hi to the lobsters for the 17th time, and pulling every cotton-pickin' thing in arms reach off the shelves. It was a small slice of heaven, truly.

For dinner we had some delish quesadillas. Dave decided to test out the organic, poblano peppers that someone gave us. Some of us think medium salsa is spicy enough, some of us need a little more zing in life. Some of us should have stuck with the medium salsa. Just the juice of this baby was enough to cause sweating, faucet nose syndrome, and redness in the neck and face. These unfortunate side effects were slightly delayed in coming but showed their true colors while Will was praying. "Dear Jesus, thank you for...(insert every imaginable person or object that can be seen)". While this is normally so sweet, he tends to go on and on and on and on... Dave couldn't wait for this particular prayer to be done. Don't worry, the following pictures were not taken during the reverent moment of prayer!
On a side note, I don't recommend itching your eye after cutting poblano peppers. This has proven to be quite painful. One eye wash, a few glasses of milk, and many plain tortilla chips solved our poblano problem. How was your weekend? How did you make memories with your family?

Baked Oatmeal

2009-09-19T22:34:00.004-04:00

Baked Oatmeal

2 cups of Quick Oats or 2 ¼ cups of Old Fashioned Oats
1/3 cup white sugar (You can use less, it was quite sweet)
3 1/3 cups milk
2 eggs, lightly beaten
2 tsp. vanilla
1/3 cup firmly packed brown sugar

(I also added some cinnamon, and a peeled, chopped Granny Smith apple)

Grease an 8-inch baking dish. In a large bowl, combine oats and white sugar (cinnamon and apple). In a medium bowl, combine milk, egg, and vanilla; mix well. Add to oat mixture; mix well and pour into baking dish. Bake at 350 degrees for 40-45 minutes or until center jiggles slightly. (My center didn’t jiggle after 40 minutes…well, MY center always jiggles, but the oatmeal center wasn’t jiggly. So, maybe cook for 30-35 minutes.) Sprinkle brown sugar evenly over the top of oatmeal. Using the back of a spoon, gently spread sugar into a thin layer. Hide this dish from your husband and small children so that you can eat your fill before sharing with with the rest of the piglets in the house.

Sorry, no pictures. It didn't last long enough for me to get out the camera. And for those of you who think oatmeal makes you want to gag (mom), you might even like this less like oatmeal, more like apple crisp breakfast.

Spanish Emergency

2009-09-09T21:59:00.003-04:00

Jackson's first day of preschool went very well. He can't wait to go back tomorrow!

When Seeing Isn't Believing

2009-09-09T15:16:00.003-04:00

The following is a devotional I "stumbled" upon yesterday, the day before the first day of Spanish Emergency (Immersion) preschool. I say "stumbled" but I believe that God placed this devotional before to ease my anxious spirit. I'm not overly anxious about sending my little one off to school, but school immersed in another language makes the situation seem more like the emergency that Jackson so innocently describes. It is my responsibility and privilege to lift my children before the Lord in prayer each day and be confident that the Almighty God has them in the palm of His hand.

When Seeing Isn’t Believing (Meditations from a Mother’s Heart by Pamela J Kennedy)

Then Elkanah went home to Ramah, but the boy ministered before the Lords under Eli the priest. Eli’s sons were wicked men; they had no regard for the Lord.” 1 Samuel 2:11-12

I’ll never forget the feeling as I stood on the side-walk watching my son go into his kindergarten class-room the first day of school. I felt like I was no longer going to be there to protect and defend him. How would he manage if someone bullied him? Who would help him if he struggled with a problem? How would I deal with the negative influences he was bound to encounter? I experienced those same feelings again when he entered junior high and high school, and once more when I kissed him good-bye and watched him walk onto an airplane to fly thousands of mile away to college. As mothers, we are constantly saying good-bye to our children, relinquishing them to the influences of others.

When Hannah took little Samuel, who was probably 3 or 4 years old, to live under the authority of the priests at the temple, she undoubtedly hoped he would be cherished and tenderly cared for. In reality, the temple did not seem a friendly place for a little one. Eli was busy and distant, and his sons, the Scriptures say, were wicked. Again Hannah needed to trust a God she could not see. As a woman of prayer, she likely brought her son daily before the throne of the Almighty, asking for His protection and mercy to surround Samuel since her arms no longer could. If she looked at the circumstances it would be easy to become discouraged. But looking to God brought hope and encouragement.

When my family members are in situations where I cannot see solutions, when they endure difficulties over which I have no control, I can be like Hannah. Although I have no power to change circumstances, I do have the power of God available through Word and Sacrament. I can also daily bring my children before His throne and seek His guidance, protection, grace, and mercy for them wherever they are. This is one of the sacred privileges of motherhood. And the assurance we have is that the same God who guided Samuel and comforted Hannah is available to guide our children and comfort us. He knows and loves our sons and daughters even more than we do and is able to accomplish great things in their lives- things beyond our limited sight that He has prepared for them to do for Him and His kingdom.

Prayer:
God thank you that you are in control at all times. Sometimes I am anxious when I look at the circumstances that surround my children. Help me to trust you daily and to leave them in Your all-powerful care. Amen

A Winner!

2009-09-08T20:27:00.003-04:00

Thanks again to Katie for a great giveaway of business cards from UPrinting! I feel like I never win, so I was quite surprised and pleased to be a winner in this give away. Now the pressure is on to either set up a blog or an Etsy shop for my creations. Any suggestions? Any ideas for a name for this little business?

A Laborless Weekend

2009-09-08T14:23:00.008-04:00

What a weekend! I spend the first two and a half days of the weekend with the Holland Area Young Lives group. We went to camp at Timberwolf Lake and had an awesome time. It was a joy to spend time with this group of young moms. ALL of the girls completed the high ropes course, they worked together as a team to complete obstacle courses, they learned a little more about the God we serve, they loved their babies with amazing care and patience, and were bold enough to share some of their stories. (Pictures are soon to follow!)

While I was with Young Lives, Dave and the boys were busy in Arcadia. I met them there Sunday morning to finish off the weekend. We had a wonderful, labor less time there. Unless of course you consider water sports, boating, eating, and making memories labor!

Dave's idea of laboring...

It was such hard working jumping off the boat and climbing back up again...

And of course, the labor of eating ice cream...

We are very thankful for the long weekend and the time to relax and do some of the things we enjoy the most!

A great giveaway

2009-08-27T21:54:00.008-04:00

Because Katie is hosting such a great give away of business cards I thought I'd post some pictures in an easy to find location. You know for all the people who are going to come looking at my blog wanting to buy all the things I sew! :) I wish I'd taken pictures of my most recent project, a hooded towel and washcloths but honestly I was so frustrated I couldn't wait to wrap it all up and give it to my sister-in-law at her baby shower. The finished product was cute, despite many bumps in the sewing machine to get there.

A few bibs...

A blanket for my girlfriend Jane's baby Celia...(The original post with a picture or two of this blanket is here.)

And finally a gift set for sweet baby Johanna. Blanket, bib, and onesie.

All interested parties are welcome to contact me with orders! :) If I win the business cards I'll let you know!

A day to celebrate

2009-08-25T15:32:00.004-04:00

Jackson has been working quite hard (most of the time) to fill in his sticker chart. Listening and obeying can be tough sometimes, but he filled the chart and we celebrated tonight by going to Chuck-E-Cheese, his prize of choice.
Unfortunately I forgot to take the camera along so we have no pictures from when we were there. The kids had a great time and Dave and I loved spoiling them for the night!

On another happy note, we got this letter in the mail today.
My student loan is officially paid off! We did a little happy dance, but truth be told, we already celebrated after writing the final check. Chuck-E-Cheese wasn't our top pick for celebrating. It feels pretty good to be debt free, ok, except for the mortgage. It was a day worth celebrating all around and celebrate we did!

Mmmm, Mmmm Good

2009-08-24T19:13:00.005-04:00

If you're looking for a clean out the refrigerator kind of meal, here you go.

Tortellini Stir Fry

Veggies...anything goes so clean out the fridge. I happened to use yellow squash, broccoli, mushrooms, some colored peppers, onion and maybe more but I can't remember.

Stir Fry Sauce

Tortellini

Saute the veggies in a little bit of olive oil. While that's cooking, boil some water for the tortellini and follow the cooking directions on the package. When the pasta's done combine it with the veggies and add the stir fry sauce. I think I used a 1/2 cup or so. Heat it all together for a few minutes, put it in a colorful bowl, and enjoy. Dave added some red pepper flakes too, 'cause you know, he's sassy like that. Very easy, very good.

Someone's sporting a new do

2009-08-19T15:08:00.006-04:00

Before...

After...

I scream...

2009-08-18T21:14:00.004-04:00

Ice cream...

...I scream......

...we both scream for ice cream!

My 3? Sons

2009-08-11T12:49:00.003-04:00

We've had a few changes around here. The most noticeable is the smiling sweet face of Payton who shows up four mornings a week to spend the day with us. He is just the cutest thing and the boys LOVE him.

Some of their reactions include the following:

Will, stating the obvious at all times. "Mommy, he's crying. Mommy he stopped (crying). Mommy he's tooting. Mommy he spit. Mommy he not spitting any more." Will also cannot fathom that this child doesn't like his paci.

Jackson is just taken by him. He loves to hold him and help give him a bottle. He likes to just watch him and I have been pleasantly surprised by how gentle he has been. At one point yesterday when Payton had been crying for a bit Jackson went through the list of things the baby might want...bottle, diaper, paci (he also was shocked by this paci-less child), clean shirt (because he'd spit up), blanket. When we'd gone though that list, he announced that "Payton probably just wants to go home".

Both boys were in giggle fits when Payton was passing gas yesterday. It was funny hearing such a loud noise come out of such a small body!

Someone needs a bottle, so I best get going... :)

31 Things

2009-08-03T08:06:00.000-04:00

In honor of my recent birthday, I thought I would share 31 things you might not know about me. Enjoy!

I love to take pictures. I'm tweaking my "skills" and since the beginning of summer I've loaded 499 pictures onto my computer. A bit ridiculous I realize.

99% of my pictures are of our boys. They are my pride and joy.

Gerber Daisies are my favorite flowers and

Kendall Jackson Chardonnay is my favorite kind of wine. Just in case you are trying to think of a belated birthday gift for me! :)

Blueberry pie is my favorite birthday dessert. I ate a piece of birthday pie tonight.

My newest favorite breakfast is plain yogurt, blueberries, a drizzle of honey, and almonds.

Did I mention that I love blueberries?

I love to run. Even ridiculously long distances.

I'm thinking of doing the Mt. Baldhead Challenge this fall.

Dave and I will be celebrating our 6th anniversary this year. I am so thankful for my best friend and an amazing six years.

I am very much looking forward to going on a cruise with my mom's side of the family this coming January.

I really don't like tomatoes. I like tomato things, but not the actual fruit.

I don't really like chocolate.

I'll drink my coffee black, but if I use cream I prefer, Coffee-Mate, French Vanilla with the fat. The as opposed to black, 1/4 cream, 3/4 coffee.

I love it that Dave loves chick-flicks almost as much as I do.

I love our dog.

I hate that he sheds.

Having a cat is out of the question.

I brush my teeth at least 3 times a day, but really hate to floss.

Crime shows are my favorite kind of TV.

But, I'd rather read than watch TV. I read fiction, almost exclusively.

I enjoy cooking and am looking for new, healthy recipes.

Sewing is therapeutic for me and I just sold my first baby blanket!

I hope to open an etsy shop sometime soon.

My soda of choice is Diet Coke. Fountain style please.

I wish I started (or ended) each day in The Word. This is something I'm working on.

I like going out for breakfast. Real Food Cafe is my favorite place to go. I wish there was one in Holland.

Roses' is my favorite dinner place to eat. They have the best pesto pizza. The Brewery's pesto pizza is a close second.

I'm not very good at admitting when I'm wrong. I'm a work in progress.

Summer is my favorite season.

I really love to shop. Dave has taught me great restraint!

I no long allow myself to bake because I usually end up eating most of what I make. The one no baking exception is banana bread.

Ok, so that might be 32 things, but I'm definitely not 32!

30 and counting...

2009-07-08T16:31:00.008-04:00

And no, I'm not talking about my age. We're talking mosquito bites. Will woke up covered, from head to toe, with mosquito bites. This afternoon I was convinced that it was chicken pox, despite the vaccination. I guess I'm still not convinced that these are merely mosquito bites, but who knows. He looks worse than he feels because other than a few bouts of itching, he's been quite happy. We are all thankful that his bites don't swell to obscene sizes like they did last year. He'd really be a sorry looking sight then. We're off to shorten some fingernails and bathe in Calamine lotion!

Independence Day

2009-07-07T21:56:00.002-04:00

Make a Smilebox scrapbook

A glimpse of today

2009-07-06T14:45:00.002-04:00

Outside my window... a beautiful day! Lots of sunshine and a soft breeze.

I am thinking... about the CPR training I have tonight in Grand Rapids. It's about time to pack up the kiddos and head out.

I am thankful for... my wonderful family! We had a great time with my family at the cottage last weekend and are looking forward to the arrival of Dave's family this coming weekend.

I am wearing... white shorts, black shirt, no shoes.

I am creating... unfortunately, nothing at the moment. I'm anxious for my sewing machine to be up and running again soon.

I am going... to Yesterdog for dinner! Cheddar dog with onion and ketchup, minus the pickle and mustard. YUM!

I am reading... the Twilight sereis. Currently looking to get my hands on the 4th book.

I am hearing... Disney's "The Aristocats". A little mid-afternoon entertainment for the non-napping child.

Around the house... our new blinds were installed today and I LOVE them.

One of my favorite things... Stacy's pita chips and hummus! Yummy!

A few plans for the rest of the week... My Grandma Nuiver turns 89 this week Saturday. We are all getting together to celebrate on Friday night. Happy Birthday Grandma!

How about you? What are you doing today?

A little bit of this and a little bit of that

2009-07-02T14:53:00.009-04:00

It has been awhile since I've last posted. Laziness mostly, but I did get sucked into the Twilight series so that hasn't helped matters. We've been up to a few things in the last couple of weeks, but mostly just enjoying summer (except this week feels more like mid October than like July...)

-Jackson ditched the training wheels and is now the proud rider of a two-wheeler!
-Jackson also just finished his second week of swimming lessons through the Holland Rec. department. He did really well and has really improved. He eagerly stuck his face in the water, slapped flippers on his feet, and jumped off the diving board. No surprise really! This is him at 2, jumping off a floating dock.
-Will is still wearing undies, with very few accidents. He still has a fit when I try to put a diaper on him, even at night. Truth be told, he is dry after every nap and dry almost every morning, but I'm not going down the no diaper at night road just yet. I figured he wouldn't want any more pictures of him in his underwear floating around on the Internet, so I settled for this one instead. Notice the pajamas? This was a pre-breakfast (cookie-dough) treat.

-Dave was offered, and accepted, the position of Athletic Director at the High School. He will be the interim AD for this coming school year and is planning to apply for the job when it opens up in the Spring. Both the Grand Rapids Press and the Holland Sentinel had great things to say. Click on the links if you'd like to read the articles. I'm so proud of him!

-I've been sewing some. Making a couple of baby gifts and a shirt for Will. The sewing machine is having some issues, so I'm going to hold off on any further projects until my sewing coach arrives from Massachusetts in a few short weeks! :)

-We are headed to Arcadia for the weekend to hopefully enjoy some sunshine, fireworks and good family time!

Oh boy!

2009-06-16T21:10:00.001-04:00

Christopher and Samantha had their 20 week ultrasound yesterday and found out they are expecting a little boy. We praise God for a healthy baby and anxiously await this little one's birthday in October. Jackson and Will can't wait to teach him everything they know!

Ready, Aim, Fire!

2009-06-11T13:57:00.007-04:00

This week has been filled with some "firsts" for our family...

-First trip to the Urgent Care center. In all honesty, I'm surprised it has taken 4 years and I'm equally as surprised that Jackson was the first to go. I was sure Will would beat him to it. But, quite literally, Will beat him to it. Nothing a little "super glue", some crayons, and a new coloring book can't fix!

-First week being (relatively) diaper free. In addition to his deadly aim with toy trains, Will has been successful "aiming" in another direction. Monday was marked as "undies day", and other than diapers at bedtime we haven't looked back since. He is doing so well. He loves his "wittle toe-wit", little toilet for those who don't speak 2 year old, and is pleased as punch with himself that he can get his pants off by himself. Gummy bears are the new treat of choice and are eaten with fervor each time the deed is done. Mostly these attempts are at my prompting, I'm still waiting for him to be as excited as I am for the lack of diapers that need to be changed. He now refuses to wear diapers, except when I force them on him at bedtime, but rarely tells me when he has to go. We still have some work to do, but it's a good first step. Hopefully we're not back to diapers next week.

Speaking of diapers, I may just get some for the dog. I'd rather change 100 dirty diapers than clean dog poop out of the basement. But enough of all this potty talk.

Pock-sicle

2009-06-04T21:42:00.002-04:00

What is the best thing to do on a warm spring afternoon? Eat a pock-sicle, of course!

Best Ever Banana Bread

2009-05-29T15:50:00.003-04:00

Banana Bread

2T. shortening
1 c. sugar
1 egg
1/2 c. sour milk (milk + some vinegar)
3 bananas
1/2 t. vanilla
2 c. flour
1 t. baking soda
1/2 t. baking powder
1/2 t. salt

Mix it all up and bake at 325 for 1 hour.

I'll give credit to my Aunt Nancy since this is her recipe. Also some credit must be given to the stoneware pan from Pampered Chef...I love my stoneware. The only credit I take is in eating it!

Identity Crisis?

2009-05-28T22:10:00.003-04:00

Yes. This is our SON. We do not have issues of confused gender identity, at least not that we know of. Needless to say, Dave was slightly concerned when both boys were fighting with their girl "cousins", Abby and Faith, over who got to wear the blue and pink (even better) high heeled shoes.

Three's-School Graduation

2009-05-27T21:23:00.009-04:00

Last week, Jackson successfully graduated from Three's-School. It was so cute watching the kids in their little graduation hats go up to get their diploma and a gift from the teacher. Some kids were shy, but not Jackson. He marched right up there, proud as punch to get his things. I can't believe the school year is over for him, but we eagerly anticipate next year when he will attend the Spanish immersion class three mornings a week. But for now, it's time to be outside, get dirty, and just be a 4 year old boy!

Bath-ties?

2009-05-15T20:44:00.002-04:00

J: "That's a silly thing to do mommy! Tying a baby up in the bath."

This was Jakson's response to finding out that baby Celia is being baptized on Sunday.

Like father, like son

2009-05-13T15:19:00.003-04:00

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That was then, this is now...take 2

2009-05-12T09:20:00.006-04:00

I can't believe that my big baby turned 4 this weekend! Where has the time gone? It was a wonderful way to share Mother's Day. Jackson, we are so proud of the young boy that you have become. You are creative, energetic, and full of life! We thank God for you each day, and pray that He will continue to bless you in the many years to come.
(For "take 1" of "That was then, this is now", click here)

One mean mama

2009-04-27T15:12:00.006-04:00

(Ok, so this isn't an official Not Me Monday post, because MckMama is too busy getting ready to come home with sweet Stellan, but I thought I'd share anyways.)

I'm sure it was not our house that all the yelling and screaming, in true 3 year old tantrum style, was coming from. And I'm sure it wasn't me who left this out of control child on the couch in the basement until he wore himself right out. He is currently snoring (can you see the drool?) and the neighborhood can now enjoy their afternoon in peace, without wearing earplugs.
I'm also sure it wasn't me that took all the clothing out of this poor boy's dresser and moved it to the high bar or high shelves in the closet. In case you were wondering, the tantrum described above is because I would not let him change his clothes for the 4th time today and the 57th time since church yesterday! Aren't I mean?

Out of the mouths of babes

2009-04-26T21:03:00.003-04:00

Just a few little funnies from the boys...

A couple days ago we were on our way home from the grocery store and were at a stopped at a red light. The folks in the car next to us had the country music blaring as loud as radio could get and the lovely ladies in the front seat were singing at the top of their lungs. Jackson was curiously watching them and the oddity of this car must have just then dawned on him because he announced in astonishment that "that car forgot it's top". This must have been the first time he noticed a convertible. He then wanted to leave the top of the van at home and go for a ride! :) This would have been nice give that the weather was 80 and sunny.

Will is having lunch the other day, talking to himself when he suddenly bursts into song. In fact, he's singing "Happy Birthday" to himself. It was quite cute and I wish the video camera wasn't at school with Dave (grrrr...). He stops singing as suddenly as he started and asks in the sweetest two year old, sing-songy voice, "Where'd my burt-day go, Mommy?" (Burt-day would be birthday to the rest of us).

Happy and Healthy

2009-04-24T16:00:00.003-04:00

Will had his two year check up today. It was so nice to go to the doctor healthy for once. I think we've been at least 10 times this winter, and not once was there nothing wrong. Ok, the last time there was nothing wrong, but a day later he got the stomach flu so it's my suspicion that was the issue all along. I told Dr. B, "No offense, but I hope we don't see you for awhile!" The buddy "passed" with flying colors, weighing in at 3o pounds (which I find hard to believe...unless he's fully clothed, which he was, and soaking wet) and standing a proud 35 inches tall. This puts him near the 70% for both height and weight. For as little as he eats, at least we know he is growing. Potty training was even discussed, but I'm not holding my breath. We are so happy to have a happy, and for now healthy, little boy!

Hit your knees

2009-04-23T21:48:00.004-04:00

Yesterday, McMamma posted on prayer. I've been following her blog and praying daily for baby Stellan. She posed the question of "why bother praying?" God already knows what is going to happen in the future right? Do our prayers make any difference? Some of her thoughts included the fact that we MUST pray because we have been commanded to. Not only that, but that God hears us. She states "Why pray? Jesus was real, God made the earth and all humans, and so for one, it is our responsibility, nay our joy and privilege to be able to communicate with the Creator of all that is, and to His Son, who died for us all." We do not pray to get what we want, rather to get to know God better, to learn His will for our lives, and to thank Him for all we have been blessed with. Prayers of petition are certainly appropriate. However, we must be convinced that God's will be done, in all circumstances.

Yesterday while completing my final Bible Study lessons (Beth Moore, Stepping Up, A Journey through the Psalms of Ascent, Beth Moore touched on prayer. Fitting since my brain was still whirling after reading McMamma's words. Who knew that Psalm 132 is a prayer of petition and God's direct answer? Verses 11-18 of this Psalm are God's words in response to the psalmists cries. God hears us when we pray! According to Beth, "If we could hear the voice of God as we sit before Him, we would never cease praying." No, we probably wouldn't. Can you imagine? Hearing the voice of God! God speaks to us through His word, and through those He has placed in our lives. God is speaking to us. Beth also points out that in Psalm 132, God exceeds the psalmists petitions. Ephesians 3:20 says that God "is able to do more that all we ask or imagine, according to His power...". If we don't ask we don't give God a chance to outdo our requests. I'd certainly never thought of it that way before. I don't think our minds can begin to comprehend how God answers our prayers.

Just some food for thought. Obviously not an exhaustive look at McMamma's question or the topic of prayer. I don't claim to have all the answers, nor do I feel like I have more than a small grasp on this. Maybe I should pray about it.

That was then, this is now

2009-04-21T14:04:00.006-04:00

Will, we thank God for you each day! We praise Him for the two wonderful years we have had with you and pray that God will bless us with many more.

The Real Deal

2009-04-13T17:35:00.004-04:00

Many thanks to Katie for tagging me in this little game. Here are the rules:
Take a picture of yourself right now.
No primping or preparing. Just snap a picture.
Load the picture onto your blog.
Tag some people to play.
Knowing what I looked like, I really didn't feel like playing along, but since I hate to be a party pooper, here goes! Jackson was thrilled to play photographer and I will think twice about leaving the gym and not showering in the future! :) Oh, and that tired face...I must be getting old because the missed night of sleep on our dive home has made me sleepy for DAYS!

Ok, tag, you're it!
Katie @ Gray Matter(s)
Emily @ Mitch, Em, & Kaden

p.s. Pictures from Florida are coming soon.

Ramblings

2009-03-31T16:06:00.002-04:00

So goes the conversation in the car yesterday...

J: Mommy, when I'm 6 can we have a sister?
M: WHAT!!!! (Ok, I didn't really say that I just thought it.) Well, maybe.
J: But Daddy just asked me if I want a sister. You know when he was tucking me if for my little sleep (a.k.a. nap) and then he fell asleep in my bed but I didn't?
M: What did you tell daddy? Do you want a sister?
J: Well, I just told him, let me think for a minute. Silence. Yeah...I want a sister.

For the record, Dave has no recollection of this conversation, but Jackson's right he did fall asleep...he may have been sleep talking.

Pressure is on apparently, but a new cousin...and the first cousin I might add...will have to do for now! :)

A little of this and a little of that

2009-03-27T14:35:00.003-04:00

I've been a little unmotivated in the blogging department. I've spent more time reading others blogs than writing on my own. I can see how this blog reading (or stalking, depending how you look at it) can become a sort of obsession. I've been coveting, in a good way of course, the ideas of The Nester. Holy cow, this woman has great taste and her house is fantastic. I love it. Who would think to hang an old door on the wall? I love her mantra of "It doesn't have to be perfect to be beautiful". I've also been reading and consequently praying for sweet baby Stellan. It is amazing how often I find myself thinking of this little one even though I have never met him or anyone else in their family. The faith of these parents is amazing, a testimony to all who are blessed to read their words. Click on Stellan's name above if you'd like to read some of their story.

In addition to blog stalking, I've been getting ready for our upcoming trip to Florida (can't wait!), chasing small children, fishing my cell phone out of toilet after a tantrum that only a toddler could produce sent it plunging, watching neurotic dogs, cleaning dead leaves and dog poop out of the yard, making beds only to fine a tube to toothpaste conveniently crammed under someone's covers and even finding some time to create...the curtain is currently pinned together and also pinned to the window. It's quite sad looking actually, but I'll share pictures when it's finished. And for now, I'm sensing that Will is awake from a too short nap and might need a little TLC from his mama.

Love Letter

2009-03-18T07:22:00.002-04:00

Someone in my Bible study shared this with our group. What a wonderful reminder of Christ's love for us. More information on this letter (and printable copies) can be found by following this link .

My Child,
You may not know me, but I know everything about you. (Psalm 139:1) I know when you sit down and when you rise up. (Psalm 139:2) I am familiar with all your ways. (Psalm 139:3) Even the very hairs on your head are numbered. (Matthew 10:29-31) For you were made in my image. (Genesis 1:27) In me you live and move and have your being. (Acts 17:28) For you are my offspring. (Acts 17:28) I knew you even before you were conceived. (Jeremiah 1:4-5) I chose you when I planned creation. (Ephesians 1:11-12) You were not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book. (Psalm 139:15-16) I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live. (Acts 17:26) You are fearfully and wonderfully made. (Psalm 139:14) I knit you together in your mother's womb. (Psalm 139:13) And brought you forth on the day you were born. (Psalm 71:6) I have been misrepresented by those who don't know me. (John 8:41-44) I am not distant and angry, but am the complete expression of love. (1 John 4:16) And it is my desire to lavish my love on you. (1 John 3:1) Simply because you are my child and I am your Father. (1 John 3:1) I offer you more than your earthly father ever could. (Matthew 7:11) For I am the perfect father. (Matthew 5:48) Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand. (James 1:17) For I am your provider and I meet all your needs. (Matthew 6:31-33) My plan for your future has always been filled with hope. (Jeremiah 29:11) Because I love you with an everlasting love. (Jeremiah 31:3) My thoughts toward you are countless as the sand on the seashore. (Psalms 139:17-18) And I rejoice over you with singing. (Zephaniah 3:17) I will never stop doing good to you. (Jeremiah 32:40) For you are my treasured possession. (Exodus 19:5) I desire to establish you with all my heart and all my soul. (Jeremiah 32:41) And I want to show you great and marvelous things. (Jeremiah 33:3) If you seek me with all your heart, you will find me. (Deuteronomy 4:29) Delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4) For it is I who gave you those desires. (Philippians 2:13) I am able to do more for you than you could possibly imagine. (Ephesians 3:20) For I am your greatest encourager. (2 Thessalonians 2:16-17) I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles. (2 Corinthians 1:3-4) When you are brokenhearted, I am close to you. (Psalm 34:18) As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart. (Isaiah 40:11) One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes. (Revelation 21:3-4) And I'll take away all the pain you have suffered on this earth. (Revelation 21:3-4) I am your Father, and I love you even as I love my son, Jesus. (John 17:23) For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed. (John 17:26) He is the exact representation of my being. (Hebrews 1:3) He came to demonstrate that I am for you, not against you. (Romans 8:31) And to tell you that I am not counting your sins. (2 Corinthians 5:18-19) Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled. (2 Corinthians 5:18-19) His death was the ultimate expression of my love for you. (1 John 4:10) I gave up everything I loved that I might gain your love. (Romans 8:31-32) If you receive the gift of my son Jesus, you receive me. (1 John 2:23) And nothing will ever separate you from my love again. (Romans 8:38-39) Come home and I'll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen. (Luke 15:7) I have always been Father, and will always be Father. (Ephesians 3:14-15) My question is…Will you be my child? (John 1:12-13) I am waiting for you. (Luke 15:11-32)

Love, Your Dad
Almighty God

Jackson tells all

2009-03-12T12:10:00.003-04:00

Life through the eyes of a child is always interesting. I saw this interview and thought I would give it a shot.

1. What is something mom always says to you?
it's time for bed

2. What makes mom happy?
when we stay in our car seats. (We've had a few issues with this...)

3. What makes mom sad?
making Will cry

4. How does your mom make you laugh?
doing funny things

5. What was your mom like as a child?
you played with toys

6. How old is your mom?
20

7. How tall is your mom?
14

8. What is her favorite thing to do?
wash the dishes (very funny...)

9. What does your mom do when you're not around?
go to Auntie Suzi's and have a party

10. If your mom becomes famous, what will it be for?
for wearing a dress (I'm pretty sure modeling is NOT in my future!)

11. What is your mom really good at?
setting the table (I must spend too much time doing dishes and setting the table...)

12. What is your mom not very good at?
building, because you are a girl

13. What does your mom do for her job?
take care of me

14. What is your mom's favorite food?
ice cream and chicken (the kid is on to something)

15. What makes you proud of your mom?
I don't know. Am I done?

16. How do you know your mom loves you?
plays with me and shows me how to play games

So, that's me in a nutshell through the eyes of a 3 year old. Try this with your kids, you may be surprised at how they think of you.

Mr. Potato who?

2009-03-11T14:27:00.004-04:00

Wordless Wednesday is hosted by 5 Minutes for Mom.

H is for...

2009-03-10T16:35:00.001-04:00

Katie at A Listmaker's Life challenged her readers to a "Top 10 List". However, this list had a catch...each item on the list must begin with an assigned letter. I can hold my own in Scattegories, so I decided to give it a whirl. The lucky letter was "H"; here is my list, in no particular order (except #1!).

1. My Husband- My bestest friend and my love.

2. Hydrangeas- One of my favorite kinds of flowers. I have them all over my yard and they look beautiful in the spring, summer, and fall. Thanks mom for inspiring my love of these.

3. Honey Crisp Apples- Really, they are the best.

4. Hosting- I enjoy having people to our house for any sort of occasion. Meal exchanges, dinner, play dates, you name it. Besides, there's nothing like hosting something big a couple times of year to get some last minutes house projects done.

5. Hamburgers- I was running last week (on one of those really warm days) and could smell the burgers on someones grill. I almost invited myself back to the barbecue.

6. Haircuts- What's not to love about having someone else wash your hair and massage your scalp?

7. Hummus- Especially when paired with Stacy's pita chips...yummy.

8. Hobby Lobby- Love it all. Paper, fabric, buttons, glue, beads, ribbon, seasonal clutter that I don't need but think is so cute. I could spend hours in that store.

9. Hot weather- Is that cheating, to use an adjective as my "H" word? I do love hot and sunny days and could use a few right about now.

10. Hebrews 12:2- Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter or our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

Let me know, in a comment, if you are interested in creating a list of your own. I will email you your letter. Just be sure to leave a link to your completed list in another comment when you are finished! Have fun!

Bye Bye Baby...Hello Big Boy

2009-03-05T21:54:00.010-05:00

My baby went for his first haircut this week. I've been dragging my feet, letting the poor boy walk around for a mullet for quite some time. I just couldn't cut the curls. So, I was sure to take a before picture of these locks because I was quite sure they would never be the same. Much to my relief, the curls are back, just a little shorter!

He sat like a champ, patiently waiting for his "wittle treat" of "Marties", more commonly known as Smarties. I like the hair cut (thank you, Melissa), but I'm not so sure about the big boy look. Where is my baby?

Sunday afternoon nap

2009-03-04T14:09:00.002-05:00

Wordless Wednesday is hosted by 5 Minutes for Mom.

Teach Me Tuesday

2009-03-03T13:50:00.017-05:00

The name book is finally finished. Or better said, finally ready to share. The papers have been sitting on my desk driving me nuts for almost a week so I decided it was time to add a cover and take some pictures. Here is the rest of the book. We started this activity a couple weeks ago and did one letter each day for a week. We then created a cover, punched some holes, and tied with ribbon. It is now the most coveted book in the house, and Jackson can successfully write his own name. Good, since that was the objective of the book in the first place! In case it is difficult to read, the objects we used in the silly sentences are as follows:

J- jumping jelly beans
A- Awesome Apple Jacks
C- Crazy Cars
K- Kids
S- Silly Seeds
O- "O" Stickers (Kind of lame, I know, but I was trying to use what I had in the house)
N- Noodles

A day at the beach?

2009-02-27T21:10:00.003-05:00

The temperatures have been frigid and it seems that Spring will never come. We are trying to remain positive however and the sunshine today was a blessing! Fitting with the desire for warmth, in Jackson's classroom they have been learning about the ocean. He came home today with a cute water bottle filled with some blue rocks, a couple of sea shells, and a small dolphin. I'm trying not to worry about when this marine treasure is going to open and spill all over the floor. He loves it and even insisted on sleeping with it. He also came home singing the cutest song about different things you'd find at the beach. I'll try and get it on video; it's that cute! The beach and water theme must have seeped into Will's little mind too. While I was at MVP this afternoon I got paged from the nursery...this has not happened to me before. They did come find me once, but that's a story for another day. I was finished running therefore not too bothered by the pager and headed up to the nursery to get the scoop. Apparently the boys had gone into the bathroom together and in keeping with the water theme, plugged the drain in the sink and filled it, I mean overflowed it, with water. They were happy as clams playing in the water. Soaking wet, but happy as clams! They were not so happy when their mother showed up and made them apologize to every member of the MVP staff and then ride home in their wet clothes...like I have an extra set of clothing just sitting around for an occasion such as this... I did use my stern mommy voice, but couldn't help but giggle.

Playing, baking, and creating!

2009-02-26T13:28:00.013-05:00

After too many days of being inside and fighting over the same toys, the boys and I headed outside today to beat the winter blues. (Check out the Smile Box if you haven't seen it yet.) It's not exactly warm, but the sun was shining, for the moment. Jackson couldn't wait to ride his scooter and Will was content to hit a "golf ball", ok really a lacrosse ball, into the street. Our outdoor adventure was cut short by cold hands and hungry tummies. We headed in to make some pumpkin muffins...so easy and so delicious.

Pumpkin Muffins
1 box spice cake (or yellow cake with 1 tsp. pumpkin pie spice added)
1 jar pumpkin
1/2 cup water.

Mix ingredients and pour into 12 greased muffin tins. (Don't use paper muffin cups...these muffins are surprisingly healthy and their lack of fat will make the muffins stick to the paper.) Bake at 350 for 16-18 minutes. I suggest eating them warm, they were the perfect dessert for our lunch.

I've also been beating the winter blues by scratching the sewing itch. My dear friend Jane had a baby girl this week Monday. Celia Anne was just a tiny niblet weighing 6 pounds and 3 ounces. My children weighed this much at least two months before they were born. Praise the Lord for healthy babies of all sizes! :) I loved making this blanket for the wee one and can't wait to go and visit.

A little Spring fling

2009-02-26T13:25:00.003-05:00

Make a Smilebox photobook

Free Groceries Anyone?

2009-02-23T20:08:00.002-05:00

Check out this great site and register to win a $50 gift card to Meijer! Just follow the link below...

http://www.5dollardinners.com/2009/02/meijer-50-gift-card-giveaway.html

Soup-er Saturday

2009-02-21T11:34:00.002-05:00

Chicken Fiesta Soup

1 jar salsa
1 can corn
1 can black beans
1 can low-fat, refried beans
1 can chicken broth
1-2 c. cooked chicken

Drain corn and black beans (rinse the beans too). Combine all ingredients stirring well to combine chicken broth and refried beans. Heat and serve. Serve with shredded cheese, sour cream, and tortilla chips or cornbread.

Since this recipe is so easy, I often buy a rotisserie chicken and make 2 or 3 batches at once. One pot to eat and 2 to freeze!

Deal of the Week

2009-02-19T07:08:00.003-05:00

This week at Meijer certain Kellogg's cereals are on sale, 5 for $10. Also, if you buy 5 boxes, you get a free gallon of milk. Wait, it gets better...what's a good deal without a good coupon?! If you combine the Kellogg's coupon (from the Red Plum insert on 1/18) save $1.50 off two and the milk deal, the cereal is only $0.92 a box! 6 boxes of cereal and a gallon of milk for $5.52. Such a deal...and my boys are pleased as punch because they have enough sugar cereal for the next six months! I'd love hear any grocery saving tips you might want to share. Happy saving!

Teach me Tuesday...or is it Wednesday?

2009-02-18T15:29:00.005-05:00

Even though I am a day behind for "Teach me Tuesday", I thought I'd post anyway. We can still learn on Wednesday right? :) Recently, Jackson has learned to identify each of the letters of the alphabet and their corresponding sounds (thank you, Fridge Phonics!). The teacher in me is jumping for joy! However, writing, coloring, and drawing have become major areas of frustration for the buddy because often things aren't perfect. This need for perfection is equally frustrating for the boy and the mom, although frustrating for different reasons. So, I've been trying to help Jackson learn to write his name. He's doing a great job!

Learning Objectives:
-Jackson will identify the letter "J" as the first letter in "Jackson" and "Jelly Beans"
-Jackson will practice writing his name (preferably without a meltdown)
-Jackson will practice counting

Materials:
-Paper with large bubble letter and a silly sentence using the repetition of the desired letter. There should be one sheet for each letter of your child's name.
-Small object (in this case, jelly beans for "J") to glue onto letter
-Glue
-Markers

Procedure:
-Ask child to identify the letter on the paper. As a challenge, identify the letter's sound too.
-Identify the small object (jelly beans) by name and determine their beginning letter.
-Glue small object inside the letter.
-While gluing, identify other words that begin with "J" sound
-Count the number of objects glued
-Read the sentence at the bottom of the page and fill in the blanks. For this activity I wrote the number (and helped with the counting) and had Jackson write his own name.
-Don't forget to save some jelly beans to eat after a job well done!

Brotherly Love

2009-02-18T09:02:00.003-05:00

Wordless Wednesday is hosted by 5 Minutes for Mom. Enjoy!

"A Mom's Version of 1 Corinthians 13"

2009-02-12T17:32:00.002-05:00

I recently read this on another blog and thought it was a good reminder of how precious the time we have with our kids really is. Our job is to LOVE and to teach our children how to love, both their Creator and those around them!

If I live in a house of spotless beauty with everything in its place,
but have not love,
I am a housekeeper, not a homemaker.

If I have time for waxing, polishing, and decorative achievements,
but have not love,
my children learn cleanliness, not godliness.

If I scream at my children for every infraction,
and fault them for every mess they make,
but have not love,
my children become people-pleasers, not obedient children.

Love leaves the dust in search of a child's laugh.
Love smiles at the tiny fingerprints on a newly cleaned window.
Love wipes away the tears before it wipes up the spilled milk.
Love picks up the child before it picks up the toys.

Love accepts the fact that I am the ever-present "mommy",
the taxi-driver to every childhood event,
the counselor when my children fail or are hurt.

Love crawls with the baby, walks with the toddler, and runs with the child,
then stands aside to let the youth walk into adulthood.

Before I became a mother I took glory in my house of perfection.
Now I glory in God's perfection of my children.

All the projections I had for my house and my children
have faded away into insignificance,
And what remain are the memories of my kids.

Now there abides in my home scratches on most of the furniture,
dishes with missing place settings,
and bedroom walls full of stickers, posters and markings,
But the greatest of all is the Love
that permeates my relationships with my children.

-Adapted by Jim Fowler